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[夫妻之间] 追求宁静人生

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发表于 2013-9-23 16:50:14 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
 宁静,是一种气质、一种修养,更是一种美好的境界,恬和、安宁,如一泓秋水,映着明月。

  宁静,不是平淡,更非平庸,而是一种充满内涵的幽远,于静中触景,于“于无声处听惊雷”。

  静能养生,静能开悟,静能生慧,静能明道……要想大智大慧,大彻大悟,必须由静做起。庄子说:“正则静,静则明,明则虚,虚则无为而无不为。”安之若泰,沉默从容,笑对人生,洒脱生活,往往要比气怒攻心,心烦意乱更显涵养和理智,更有机会和智慧来处理面对人生的一切。

  老子认为,万物生于静归于静。不论是道家的炼心炼气,儒家的修心养性,还是佛家的“六根清静”都无不以炼静为入手。一个人心不能静便无所安,心不能定便无所守,也就是说,人静不下来就会没了主心骨,就会心绪不安,就会一事无成。

  追求宁静的心境,清醒的人生,曾经是多少古人、现代人于世俗中,于滚滚红尘中,于芸芸众生中梦之以求的……

  静能排除杂念,宁静以致远,则专心致志,将智能、灵感全部集中调动起来,而有所创造、有所成就。庄子说,圣人之静,善于固守养静,万物不足于挠其心志,以能静。事实告诉我们,只有宁静,才会有非凡的创造。

  静能使人心明神清,慧增开悟,神采万千,以不变应万变。道家葛洪曰:“无为自化,清静自在”,面对滚滚红尘,情感纠葛、竞争激烈,杂务缠身,人们常会觉得压力沉重,心境失衡。如果不懂得忙里偷闲,不适当调节心情、舒缓放松一下自己,就会感到心力交瘁而迷惘躁动。倘若把握不了自己,由着性子,小事生烟,大事冒火,骄横轻狂,喧嚣鼓噪,弄得自己坐卧不宁,别人见之唯恐避之不及,结果只能是累了别人害了自己。所以,与其紧张去烦恼倒不如让自己先凝神静下心来。

  陶冶性情,需要宁静。宁静可以沉淀出生活中许多纷杂的浮躁,滤尽出浅薄,粗率等人性的杂质,可以避免许多轻率、鲁莽、无聊、荒谬的事情发生。先哲说,“动以养身,静以养性,静以修身”和书上所谓“闭门思过”指的都是在宁静的环境中,让人摒弃俗虑杂念,排除外界干扰;进行反思,悟出真谛,从而达到陶冶性情,涵养德性,净化灵魂的目的。

  享受生活,需要宁静。生活需要鲜花掌声,灯红酒绿,歌舞喧腾的繁华热闹,但热闹之中,往往包含着捧场和虚假,热闹过后,留下的常常是无奈的冷清和失落。只有宁静才是一方净土,不但能为你带来心灵的感念,更能让你享受生活的安宁和自在、洒脱。

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发表于 2014-10-18 23:14:56 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2014-10-19 12:18:38 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2014-10-21 17:29:14 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2014-10-22 13:55:14 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2014-10-25 22:32:58 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2014-10-25 22:37:24 | 显示全部楼层
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